Its quite strange I hear a lot of cases in the regular life of people being depressed due to love and love affairs. I believe many of us have spent a severe amount of time doing all sorts of stupid things as in tearing the pages, throwing crockery, shouting, crying, trying to make people understand how much you loved the person who left you. Interestingly I come across many people who have gone even ahead say have tried committing suicide or hurted themselves or others.

Its strange a substantial amount of suicides in India especially teenagers or the youth are due to such matters of love.

Its pretty normal for people who read it criticize me over my comments on love, but to tell you all the truth I do believe in love. Just that I don't believe in the concept our youth has developed now. 

This generation has lost the very concept of love. Love not always means that you have to get something or someone. Sometimes its about letting the person go. Sometimes its about sacrifice. Strange many of my friends refute me on this topic saying "why me?" which is the most common question you will hear from the people who have been through such problems. My simple answer is that (if you believe in GOD) He has a better plan for you and (if you are a atheist like me) its the way the Universe handles its subjects. You can go through a bad patch in life, when you will feel what every thing is going wrong but in some days you could be the happiest person in life.

Well love is awesome. The feelings you get, the fights you have are awesome. But its equally painful when someone leaves you. But our generation needs to look at it in the right way. See the right concept of love. 

When you love someone, you want that person to be happy. You strive a lot to make the person happy. So y don't we follow that when our relations end. Somewhere if you let the person go and sacrifice he/she would be happy and that's what you intend at. Doesn't really matter who he/she is with. I have had many of my friends not believing in this thought of mine but trust me guys somewhere you do will pay you back. This universe has a very mysterious way of maintaining balance. 

So understand the concept of love. Love, live and enjoy. Sacrifice when necessary. I know that can be painful but if you look at it with an optimistic mind you will find that that instance has given your life a new path.